Mutual Relations by L R Chawdhri

In day-to-day life we find that some persons disturb you, attract you, hate you or annoy you for no reasons. So question arises why people should have such impact on you. Let us analyse this question in a methodical way through astrology.
Mutual harmony between two persons of the same sex, opposite sex, partners and in couples or lovers determines mutual attraction, harmony and adaptability between the two and can be checked astrologically through their horoscopes by the analysis of their Sun and Moon signs and their Ascendants.

Sun Signs (Nirayana System)

1. Aries Sun Signs will have harmonious relations with persons having Leo and Sagittarius Sun Sign and likewise.
2. Taurus with Capricorn, Virgo or Cancer.
3. Gemini with Aquarius or Libra.
4. Cancer with Pisces, Scorpio or Taurus.
5. Leo with Sagittarius or Aries.
6. Virgo with Capricorn or Taurus.
7. Libra with Aquarius or Gemini.
8. Scorpio with Cancer and Pisces.
9. Sagittarius with Aries, Leo and Sagittarius.
10. Capricorn with Taurus, Virgo and Libra.
11. Aquarius with Aries, Gemini and Libra.
12. Pisces with Cancer, Virgo and Scorpio.

A Few Points

The following Yogas lead to harmonious or otherwise relations between the two:

1. If the radical Mars of one is aspected by Rahu or Saturn of the other.
2. If Sun in each horoscope has the same sign, the harmony will be too good if the longitudes are nearly the same.
3. If Venus in one is in 12th and Mars in the other in the same house or exchange places.
4. Moon in one to Moon in other in good aspect indicates good relations.
5. Jupiter and Saturn having same longitude in each others chart leads to better understanding, sympathy and appreciation of the other.
6. Jupiter and Venus having the same above position.
7. But, Mars and Saturn having same longitude in each other’s chart is not good and indicates quarrels, have and annoyance.
8. Benefics in one over the ascendant or luminaries in the other horoscope is favourable for good and mutual harmony.
9. Luminaries in both horoscopes having same longitude are good for sympathy. Similar case is with Moon and Mercury.
10. In mutual harmony sometimes there comes periods of discord.. For this check when the afflicting planets transit over the vulnerable point in the order.

Moon Signs

The Moon sign ordinarily should not be 2nd, 6th, 8th or 12th from the Moon sign of the other. There are certain exceptions as cleared in the table.
The Moon sign either 3rd or 11th from the Moon sign of the other is most suitable; also 4th, 7th, 10th Moon signs are good.

Adeptability Moon Signs

01 Aries = Agreeable: Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Sagit, Capricorn, Aquarius and Libra.Disagreeble: Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio and Pisces.
02 Taurus = Agreeable: Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Aquarius & Pisces.Disagreeble: Gemini, Libra, Sagitt, Aries.
03 Gemini = Agreeable: Leo, Virgo, Libra, Sagitt, Aquarius, Pisces, Aries. Disagreeble:Taurus, Cancer, Capricorn, Scorpio.
04 Cancer = Agreeable: Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces, Aries, Taurus.Disagreeble: Leo, Sagitt, Gemini, Aquarius.
05 Leo = Agreeable: Libra Scorpio, Sagitt, Aquarius, Aries, Taurus. Disagreeble: Virgo, Capricorn, Pisces, Cancer
06 Virgo = Agreeable: Scorpio, Sagitt, Capricorn, Pisces, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer.Disagreeble: Libra, Leo, Aries, Aquarius.
07. Libra = Agreeable: Sagitt, Capricorn, Aquarius, Aries, Gemini, Cancer, Leo.Disagreeble: Pisces, Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio.
08. Scorpio = Agreeable: Capricorn, Aquarius, Pisces, Taurus, Cancer, Leo, Virgo.Disagreeble: Aries, Gemini, Libra, Sagitt.
09. Sagittarius = Agreeable: Aquarius, Pisces, Aries, Gemini, Leo, Virgo, Libra.Disagreeble: Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus, Cancer.
10. Capricorn = Agreeable: Pisces, Aries, Taurus, Cancer, Libra, Scorpio, Virgo.Disagreeble: Aquarius, Gemini, Leo, Sagitt.
11. Aquarius = Agreeable: Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagitt.Disagreeble: Cancer, Pisces, Capricorn, Virgo.
12. Pisces = Agreeable: Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Sagitt. and Capricorn.Disagreeble: Aries, Leo, Libra, Aquarius.

Rashi Vichar


Elaborating further Moon sign in the case of a couple, which also important is as below:-
1. If Rasi of boy happens to be 2nd from that of girl and if Rasi of girl is 12th from that of boy, evil results will be indicated.
2. But if Rasi of boy falls in 12th from that of the girl or Rasi of girl is in 2nd from the boy, longevity for the couple is denoted.
3. If Rasi of boy is 3rd from that of the girl, there will be misery and sorrows.
4. But if Rasi of girl is 3rd from that of boy there will be happiness.
5. If Rasi of boy is 4th from that of girl, there will be great poverty.
6. But if Rasi of girl is 4th from that of the boy, there will be great wealth.
7. If Rasi of boy falls in 5th from that of the girl, there will be unhappiness.
8. But if the Rasi of the girl is 5th from that of the boy, there will be enjoyment and prosperity.
9. If Rasi of boy falls in 6th from the girl, there will be loss of children.
10. But of Rasi of girl is 6th from that of the boy, then the progeny will prosper.
11. But when the Rasi of the boy and girl are in 7th house mutually, then there will be health, agreement and happiness.

Ascendant

The next important point is Ascendant in two horoscopes, the detailed analysis of which is a must. The ascendant stands for self, which should be compared with other person. If someone’s planets fall in your 1st house, they will affect you, the effect may be beneficial, annoying or harmful. Sometimes some people come across accidentally, purely unintentional but they are attracted towards each other magnetically or repulsed etc. which is not a mere accident; the analysis of their mutual charts indicate such like things. You can check vice versa. viz. your planets and other’s first house.
In such cases check the following points:-
1. The closer the other’s planet lie near your ascendant degrees, the result will be according to the planet, a benefic or malefic upon you of others.
2. When another’s planet or planets fall in your Lagna or 1st house, the impact is undeniable. But whether the ultimate impact is good or bad depends on other aspects between your charts.
If sometimes a person disturbs you, it is not deliberate, it is the effects of planets transiting in your chart. Or sometimes you overpower him or her is not too accidental. Once one will understand this point, he will have a better control on his life.
In case Mars in other’s chart falls in your ascendant, you can defend yourself with no uneasy feeling of intimidation; or if there is Saturn, one will dominate you. In case your planets are in someone’s first house, do not try to dominate or manipulate. Your Saturn or Neptune in another’s 1st house indicates to go specially easy with that person.

Influence of Planets

From the details as below, you can check your 1st house and other’s planets and vice versa. The more planets, the more complex are the results.
1. Sun: If someone’s Sun falls in your 1st house, you will be comfortable with this person. Common interest and agreement on most points will be between the two with good understanding, administration and having full regards with one and other’s opinion and qualities. This is the best contact to your Ascendant. In such case personal bonds will be strong, except in cases of different inter-aspects in other areas of your charts.
2. Moon: If someone’s Moon falls into your ascendant, intense emotional bond with that person will be enjoyed. Complete harmony, security and protection will be felt, specially in case of couples,. lovers, etc. if this configuration is available, they enjoy happy married life, etc.
3. Mars: Presence of Mars in your 1st house indicates energetic effects, always pushing you to try harder, do better and be more. In case of male female, a strong sexual attraction is denoted. A good aspect makes you courageous. An afflicted aspect will create quarrels, excessive domination and interference in your life.
4. Mercury: An instant communication, chattering between the two will strengthen the relations if Mercury falls in your 1st house. The conversation will be free and happy for long time. In case of affliction, good conversation will be marked by negation and bickering.
5. Jupiter: A best possible placement of Jupiter in your 1st house. You can trust this person with confidence. Someone whose Jupiter falls in your 1st house, cannot do much for you. A good spirit and understanding will be between the two. You can receive
and give good advice to each other. In case of any affliction hide and seek game will prevail between the two with some little confidence.
6. Venus: In case Venus falls in your first house, warmth and love will prevail. In case of opposite sex, happy union, love, attraction and even happy marriage are indicated. Also you have relations of mutual charm, understanding and affection. Any affliction indicates bickering and skirmishes, etc.
7. Saturn: A planet of restrictions an d discipline falls in your 1st house. You can learn or be intimidated. Benefit or hindrances, un-lifting or downgrading can be experienced from this person. The exact effects and relations depend on the charts and the aspect. If there is emotional harmony between you in most other areas, the Saturn person can help you much. If not, it could be quite a trying relationship.
8. Uranus: The placement of Uranus in your 1st house is quite important. You may meet in an unexpected or improbable way. It will have an electrifying effects on you. The person will inspire you to do the things which you have never thought to do before and urge to reach the new heights. In very extreme cases, the Uranus person can persuade you to abandon every thing dear to you, waste your time, energy, money and emotions; lead you on a wild goose chase and then leave you marooned in unfamiliar territory. The Uranus person will also represent a change of lifestyle to you, which can mean that you and he/she disagree on morality, religion, politics and other vital issues.
9. Neptune: Elusive and frustrating aspect sometime to share. You will be bothered, bewildered, bewitched by those whose Neptune falls in your 1st house. You will not be able to understand them even they fascinate you. The person can have a sweetly inspiring influence on you. You may like them and feel kindly toward them and they toward you; but unless there are some more definite inter-aspects between your charts, your relationship with them will never progress beyond vague goodwill and the feeling that you have very little in common. When other aspects are terribly inharmonious, the Neptune person may deliberately try to deceive or mislead you.
10. Pluto: In placement of Pluto of someone in your Ascendant may shape or change your life in some profound way. You will care very much about the opinions of this person, even you do not know why they should matter so much to you. This placement causes love relations and romance and urges you to enter the realm of psychological fulfillment. The other person will have considerable influence upon you, whether you realize it or not. Check whether this influence is for your mutual benefit or for the person alone.

(Condensed from Planets & Forecast, November, 1983)